Personal Scripture Study and Prayer

"How can I expect the Lord to help me when I don't help myself?"

This was a thought I had Tuesday morning when I realized that I had gone directly to preparing for the RS luncheon when I woke up, rather than to my normal routine of personal scripture study and prayer. 

I was beginning to feel behind schedule and was silently praying for help from above to accomplish what was needed that morning. Then that thought came to me -

"How can I expect the Lord to help me when I don't help myself?" 

I should have already had my spiritual feast for the day, but passed it up. I wasn't doing something bad, I just wasn't doing it in the proper order, with the proper personal preparation. 

I was trying hard to complete the task at hand and even thought for one quick moment that I was doing something good and then heading to the temple, so maybe I could skip it that day. Then it hit me - clear and to the point. This is a most perfect day for personal scripture and prayer - and nothing should ever take it's place; any day.  Not only that, but I really should prepare myself spiritually for a day at the temple. 

I stopped what I was doing and headed for my quite area for scripture and prayer. 

This morning I read Elder L. Tom Perry's message from 2013 April Conference titled Obedience to Law is Liberty, and find it to be perfect for this upcoming holiday, and to testify to the fact that personal scripture and prayer are a perfect beginning to every day ..., for every person.  It will help keep us on the right track.

This message was first posted HERE

RS Lunch

Maybe you noticed the clutter in the background of the Father's Day photo on the previous post - well, that is because I was preparing for the RS luncheon and had things set out to make sure I had what I needed and that it all fit like it needed.  I was gone enough for a few days, that I decided leaving it up wouldn't be in the way much, so there it is for all to see.  My bad!

 

That luncheon is over now, and I have spent the last couple days trying to clean up after the clutter.  I should have the last of things put away today if we get home in time to take care of it. (life is kinda busy right now)

 

I thought I'd share a photo of the table and food for the RS luncheon.

Here it is -

 

We were going to eat out in the pavilion, but it was rainy and breezy and cold, so we went inside the church building and borrowed the primary room.

 

The surroundings were a bit different, but it was warm and cozy, allowing us to stay and enjoy each other's company a little more than if we were out in the chilly weather. 

 

 

It seemed to be a great way to spend time after a visit to the temple.  We have wonderful women in our ward and it was a great way to spend time together - in the temple and then at an indoor picnic.

 

 

Father's Day Report

 We had a wonderful Father's Day, and hope you did too!

I have a really hard time with photo shots of sitting around the table. It seems that someone is always caught in a position they would rather not be in.  I tried it anyway.
(But it looks like Akleigh got down too soon, or I took the photo too late - she's MIA in this shot.)

 

This photo at the table turned out sweet (well, except it could have had better focus) - Akleigh loves Elsie and after dinner was sharing her blanket with her sweet cousin.  (Maybe that is where Akleigh was during the last shot - finding her blanket to share with Elsie.)  Elsie loves it when Akleigh plays with her.  It's going to be fun to see how these cousins interact as they get older.  I know I'm gonna love it when all the cousins get together!  Happy Days!

BrittanyJo took a few photos of the table before we sat down to eat.

 

 It was a great day, but then, when we are celebrating Fathers it can't help but be a great day.
I have a wonderful father, Terry has a wonderful father, and our children have a wonderful father - so ..., a wonderful Father's Day just had to happen!  and did!
 

Father's Day Bonus Photos:

 

Gregory and Terry - April 1982

 

Gregory, Brandon, Terry - July 1993

 

Terry, Thomas, Gregory, Brandon - Oct 1986

 

Brandon, Skyler, Thomas, Michael, Chase, Terry - August 1993

 

Terry and Michael - December 1992

 

Terry and Anthony - June 2003

 

Terry and Connor - April 2003

 

 

Michael, Chase, Terry - August 1994

  

 The daddy days are over - it's only dad now!
Lovin' the seasons!

 

 

 

Medical Report

Terry had an appointment last week with the oncologist - regular check up and no new news.
Does anyone really watch these counts?  I guess I'll give them because I have them.
WBC = 2.9(L)  Norm is 4.5-11.0
RBC = 3.93(L) Norm is 4.5-5.9
HCT = 35.8(L) Norm is 41.0-53.0
Platelet = 30(L) Norm is 150-400
Ab Neutrophils = 0.8 (L) Norm is 1.8-7.8

Terry has received word from SCCA that they have found a donor / match for his transplant.  (We have known this for awhile, but have been putting it off.)  They are ready to put him on their schedule ..., but ..., he is not ready to go.  We have agreed to a consultation on the 25th and will decide for sure what to do after that meeting.

Terry would like to wait until harvest is over before going in for this transplant. If it doesn't jeopardize the transplant success rate at all, that is probably what he will choose.  I am just going along with his decision - whatever he says ... goes!  When we try to decide what the best time will be we can always come up with some great reasons why we shouldn't do it at any given time, so for me, I will just do what he wants, because so matter when he wants, it's going to be tricky for our family ..., again!


Did you know ... ?

SCCA - when we refer to it - is Seattle Cancer Care Alliance

but,

SCCA is also  Sports Car Club of America

Terry would probably much rather go there.  ;)

Hay Days

 Our hay harvest began as soon as it could after the rains stopped. 

The men wanted a couple more balers in the field, so they started thinking of who could help them.  The help was right here in the family, but I wasn't one of the volunteers - I just don't do well staying up all night and wasn't too excited about the whole idea at this age.   But I wasn't useless - I helped out, just in a different way.

 

Of Course Terry, Thomas, and Michael were each on balers.  New to the crew this year was Dana, who baled every night with the guys.  I kept the grandkids here so she could go bale.

One night I added another grandchild to the party so Tawnee could go bale. 

I know ..., I had the easiest job and the most fun!

Anthony helped bale two nights and BrittanyJo baled one night.  (It's a little harder when you have to get up for school the next day.  Sometimes you don't get up, you just come in from the field and get ready for school.)

This was the first year for the girls.  Now that they all have learned how to bale, we have extra people.  That's a good thing.

 

Here is the fun part - grandchildren at the house.

Auger and Akleigh spent a lot of time with us while Dana was helping throughout parts of the day and being here other parts of the day, and we had everyone here for most of the meals.  We had a great week.

 

We had a lot of toys being used and enjoyed, like this train Auger is playing with.

 

Babies received love from Akleigh.

 

 

 I did the cooking, and the cleaning, except for one day when Dana and BrittanyJo had some time in the kitchen making pizza and desserts.   We were a farm family at it's best, working, eating, playing, and sleeping in the same house.  (Except the baler work wasn't in the house of course.)  There were several meals where we would have 11 people around our dining table again.  It's a fun thing!

One morning while everyone was trying to catch up on some much needed sleep, the two kids and I made some cowboy cookies.  We had a lot of fun.  When their mommy asked them what they wanted for breakfast they told her they already had it - cookie dough and cookies.  Um!  Isn't that what gramma's are for?   I tried to give them cereal, but they were not interested.  Akleigh did have a piece of bread!  Oatmeal for breakfast isn't bad right?  There is oatmeal in cowboy cookies. ;)

 

I love having the grandkids around, and enjoy seeing their advancements.  Elsie is scooting around and loving life.  She is a happy and pleasant little gal.  We love her, and Akleigh wants to be with her all the time when we are together.

 

 

I LOVE FAMILY!

 

Oh, the hay got baled and the kids returned to their own homes ...,  and ..., yip, at times I feel like I'm going thru withdrawals. 

 

Funny thing -  I have been quite tired even though I didn't bale.  I did stay up later than normal, and I never sleep well when Terry is gone, and I feel like I was up all night with them.    I am always tired when the guys bale.   I can only imagine how tired they are, because they were the ones working.  Silly thing huh!  I'm tired because they baled! 

Must be Sympathy Pains!

 

Oh Bother!

 

Trip to Brayden's Baptism

We made a quick trip to Blythe California last weekend for our oldest grandchild's baptism.

It was such a special occasion. 

 

We might be a bit prejudice, but we sure love this family and think they are pretty special.

 

Adena, Ethan, Tawny, Brayden, Gregory and Madeline

 

While we were there we visited and played and enjoyed being together.

 

 

 

 

We also celebrated a birthday - Maddie's birthday is on the 22nd, and they waited to celebrate it while we were there.  She is such a cute little gal.

 

 

 

 The trip was short and sweet and special. 

The baptism was wonderful.

I'll have to post a pic of the baptism day after I borrow from Adena.  I was too concerned with making sure I had my talk with me, and didn't get the camera to that event.  My Bad!

 

 

 

Photos will be coming!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother's Day Report

We had a very happy Mother's Day.

 

It started several days ago with yard work.  Terry and the guys had been so busy with farm work, and I have been busy with other things and the weather was not something I wanted to be out in much this spring so the yard was left unattended. I must say however, that I have worked in the yard - and have spent much time there, but we do have a big yard and parts of it was looking kinda scary. ;)

So, since they had some time to help, they came in and cleaned up this yard so that it looks like someone lives here now..., and cares.  There is still more to do, but much has been done and it's looking great!  Happy Mother's Day to me!  I love it!

 

Michael and Tawnee are home from college, and we love to see them often.  We are enjoying those cute smiles from Elsie and look forward to the many more to come.

 

We got to talk to all of our children within two days time.  Some called Saturday so they could make sure to not interrupt the missionary calls.  And, I was able to visit with my mother.

I thought about taking photos a time or two, but only got these two - on the phone at the same time,  Michael talking to Elder Connor Hebdon and Thomas talking to Elder Chase Hebdon.

We had a great meal and a very relaxed and wonderful day.

We had the family over again Monday evening to help finish off some of the food and another gift came in the mail on Monday, so

this holiday continues to be a great holiday for me, and I hope it is for you too.

Bonus:

Look what I found in my junk box this morning.  Good thing I checked it before I deleted it.
I didn't recognize the name of the sender, but the subject line did say Elder Hebdon and Elder Johnson. 

And now ... I think it's time for something from the past.

BJo enjoying the flowers - August 1997

Roasting marshmallows at a family campout at Ensign - Summer 2002
Chase, Elaine, Anthony, BrittanyJo

Gregory helping rake the lawn -  May 1985

 

 Gregory and Brandon helping with the dishes -

 

 

 Oh! Connor must have been full - June 1995

Is this one of those new-fangled push mowers?  It's a fun one whatever it is!
Skyler on the mower, Thomas, Gregory, Brandon pushing the mower - Summer 1990

Thomas hugging his mom - Dec. 2004 - Just before he left for his mission.

 

In the hospital bed - Chase and Michael adoring Connor - April 1994

Looking for pumpkins - Gregory planted this garden before leaving for his mission - Chase, Thomas, Brandon, Connor, Michael, BrittanyJo and Terry - Fall 2001

 

 

 That was fun huh!

I am so glad that I'm a mom!
 

 

 

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! / HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

 

For now, my Mother's Day post will consist of a link to another post I did about Mothers.  But, I'll be back to post more about Mother's Day, after our phone visits and family gathering.

 

Here is the post I did for My Stuff Room / Galore-ious Stuff

No More Noble Work

 

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY !

 

 

(9:30am update)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ANTHONY !

Did you count the candles?  15!

We exchanged gifts - actually, he gave me mine first.
He had a tennis match (all day) yesterday (alllllll day), and sneaked these home for me.  I didn't know until this morning.  Surprise! 

Beautiful red roses from my youngest son / child.
Quite thoughtful, don't you think!

I love my family!
Have a Wonderful Mother's Day!
(I am!)
(Actually, it's been a wonderful Mother's Day all week! - more on that later)