Monday, July 16, 2018

Special Days

July 16, 1957 was a special day, when God sent a son - Terry Wayne Hebdon - to Keith and Idris Hebdon, joining four siblings who surely loved and adored him.  In a few more years a couple more children were added to the family.  Those 7 children surely brought joy to their parents and grandparents.



A new family was created in February 1980 when Terry and I (Elaine) were married.  As our family began to grow we experienced the joy and love that comes from having children.  Many years later we experienced the joy of adding spouses for our children, and then of course, the addition of grandchildren.  Each addition is special and I am grateful for the special days we have experienced and continue to experience.

Let me share a few of our most recent special days:


May 14, 2018 was a special day because we added a granddaughter to our family.
Sylvie Jane - born to Michael and Tawnee, joining three siblings that love and adore her.







June 3, 2018 was a special day because we added a grandson to our family.
Bo Terry - the first child born to, and loved and adored by, Chase and Rebekah.







June 7, 2018 was a special day because we added a grandson to our family.
Canyon Thomas - born to Thomas and Dana, joining four siblings that love and adore him.






June 30, 2018 was a special day, when we added a granddaughter to our family.
Lennon James Lynn - born to Brandon and Megan, joining one sibling that loves and adores her.






With these new births, Terry and I have 20 grandchildren = 10 grandsons and 10 granddaughters.

I can say with confidence that Terry and I find great joy in adding these special children to our family. We love and adore each and every one.  Each addition to our family is a wonderful piece of joy added to brighten the day and the eternity we will enjoy forever.




Friday, April 6, 2018

Easter Blessings

This Easter season gave me many opportunities to testify of my faith in Christ and in The Resurrection.

I was first asked to share in Primary Sharing Time, then the next week I was asked to share in Young Women, and of course Seminary gives me several opportunities, and then Easter was here to remind me.

I have a hard time bringing my thoughts and words together to make sense and struggled to want to share my deepest feelings.  I knew I should so after prayer and pondering I came up with a presentation using the photographs and plaques around my house.

It has remained on my mind for weeks. It is important to me so I decided to write it down.  It is a "feel good" memory. It's a "feel good" trust and faith in our Redeemer, and I share it now:



I call this a love story.
Between these two people -




Terry and Elaine Hebdon

We met 39 years ago.
We were married 38 years ago ...,





Because we were married in an LDS temple by a man with the proper Priesthood / Sealing authority, the two of us and all the children we would have could be together forever.  




A couple years later our family began to grow, and in time, the Lord had sent us a total of nine children.




The last time all 11 of us were together was after Gregory came home from his mission and before Brandon left on his mission (the last week of July 2003).  


(The opportunity to be together at this time was a tender mercy in itself.  Brandon was to leave almost a month before Gregory returned, but I sent him for one last dental cleaning before he left for two years without one.  The dentist was not supposed to take x-rays but fortunately he did, which allowed him to find a hole in Brandon's jaw bone.  An elbow in the face could have broken his bone, so it needed repaired before he left, meaning Brandon's mission would begin a couple months later than he was first assigned, allowing some time between their missions. )


The next time we had an opportunity for us all to be together was in December 2014.




You will probably first notice that there are many more family members in this photo.
Then, as you look closer, you will notice one of the original 11 (or the original 2) is not pictured.  

In December 2014 there were 27 family members and one of them (Terry Wayne Hebdon) had passed away.  

More family members have been added - in April 2018 there are 35 members of our family, and this summer we will add 4 more grandchildren, making a total of 39.

At this point, Terry has not met two daughters-in-law and his son-in-law, and a third of his grandchildren, and they have not met him nor will they see each other in this life.  More than half of his grandchildren won't remember him, even though he has loved them and held them in his arms.

After the birth of our grandchildren this summer only half of his grandchildren will have met him, and of course this number will continue to grow, and some day we will also add another daughter-in-law to those numbers.  


However, because of another love story this separation will not last forever.




Our Heavenly Father sent His Only Begotten Son to earth to make eternity possible, and Jesus Christ accepted this Plan of Redemption - a Plan of Happiness.


Because of Jesus Christ's acceptance of this plan, His birth, His life, His teachings, His Atonement, His death, His Resurrection, and His love we will all see each other and live together forever.


I am grateful!


Because of Him our family is eternal!




I did not add this next picture (that has been hanging on our wall for many years) to my presentation, but I do add it to my testimony today.   And it's all because of Christ.




  (I loved the saying and created a visual using a picture from our wedding collection.)





The Promise
-
Across the years I will walk with you ~
Love in our hearts; adventures new:
And when our time on earth is through,
You'll have my hand in heaven too.



Monday, January 8, 2018

Grateful for Tender Mercies of the Lord


While I was taking down my Christmas tree I was watching or listening to movies and their music.
I often need a movie or music in the background to keep me going (if I'm not studying seminary lessons).

I started with Moana - it has some fun music.





I watched the most recent Beauty and the Beast.  Some of the music in these movies are just fun, and others have lyrics that inspire.  Great listening!





[Verse 1]
How does a moment last forever?
How can a story never die?
It is love we must hold onto

Never easy, but we try
Sometimes our happiness is captured
Somehow, our time and place stand still
Love lives on inside our hearts and always will
[Chorus]

Minutes turn to hours, days to years then gone
But when all else has been forgotten
Still our song lives on
[Verse 2]

Maybe some moments weren’t so perfect
Maybe some memories not so sweet
But we have to know some bad times
Or our lives are incomplete
Then when the shadows overtake us
Just when we feel all hope is gone
We’ll hear our song and know once more
Our love lives on
[Verse 3]

How does a moment last forever?
How does our happiness endure?
Through the darkest of our troubles
Love is beauty, love is pure
Love pays no mind to desolation
It flows like a river through the soul

Protects, persists, and perseveres
And makes us whole
[Chorus]

Minutes turn to hours, days to years then gone
But when all else has been forgotten
Still our song lives on
How does a moment last forever
When our song lives on

~ ~ ~



November and December are wonderful times of the year when we have holidays that help us remember the important things in life.    I feel blessed to have my darkest, most sorrowful moment (that of my husband passing away) be surrounded by these two holidays - Thanksgiving and Christmas - because it helps me, or almost makes me feel the love of God.

Still it is a solemn time of year for me and in the background of this wonderful time of year there is sorrow.  I am so grateful that even with that deep sorrow, there is still a great amount of joy - knowing that we have been promised to each other for eternity.  I do have much to look forward to. I know I sound wishy-washy but it really is a back and forth time of year for me.


With the mixed emotions I certainly had while taking the lights off my tree I heard something on Beauty and the Beast that pierced my heart.

It was while Belle and her father were in the dungeon with the beast, and Belle offered to stay there forever if the beast would let her father go free.





She was asking for a minute to say good-bye before her father was released and the beast didn't seem to think it was necessary.  Belle didn't give up, and replied;


"FOREVER CAN SPARE A MINUTE"



Wow!  I need to remember this!
Our time on earth is but a moment compared to our Heavenly Father's time - eternity.  So every suffering or sorrow we endure here on earth is but a minute to Him and we can endure it with His help.

In seminary we are studying the stories about Alma and Amulek (including, but not limited to Alma 14) and this quote, FOREVER CAN SPARE A MINUTE, is perfect - reminding us that any trial on earth, even all of our time on earth, is but a minute and we must continue in faith, with patience and hope of the blessings we will receive in eternity.









I was the one who had it all
I was the master of my fate
I never needed anybody in my life
I learned the truth too late
I'll never shake away the pain
I close my eyes but she's still there
I let her steal into my melancholy heart
It's more than I can bear
Now I know she'll never leave me
Even as she runs away
She will still torment me
Calm me, hurt me
Move me, come what may
Wasting in my lonely tower
Waiting by an open door
I'll fool myself, she'll walk right in
And be with me for evermore
I rage against the trials of love
I curse the fading of the light
Though she's already flown so far beyond my reach
She's never out of sight
Now I know she'll never leave me
Even as she fades from view
She will still inspire me
Be a part of everything I do
Wasting in my lonely tower
Waiting by an open door
I'll fool myself, she'll walk right in
And as the long, long nights begin
I'll think of all that might have been
Waiting here for evermore

~ ~ ~


Such a long post to say what I felt, and I'm not sure I've done it justice.  I'll just say - I am so grateful for tender mercies of the Lord to remind me of the important things in life and encourage me to move forward in faith.

Sometimes simple phrases in songs or movies can encourage and uplift and enlighten. They are a reminder to the heart, mind, and soul that all is or will be well, in the Lords time.



And I'll add one last song - by Josh Groban, I Believe